lessons

I walked a mile with Pleasure, She chattered all the way; But left me none the wiser, For all she had to say. I walked a mile with Sorrow And ne'er a word said she; But, oh, the things I learned from her When Sorrow walked with me!

I read this quote on Jeanie Opfel's blog and it really got me thinking. I believe I've walked most of my life with pleasure and oh how much I've enjoyed her company. These last months Sorrow crowded in. Though an unwelcome visitor, I must say I have learned a lot. Here goes-

Everyone I know is basically a

hero, so many people have been so kind and thoughtful from getting me a toothbrush so I had the luxury of fresh breath while I stayed by my mom's side through her last night to meals, prayers, etc. I hope I can be more like the people around me.

I also learned that I can do hard things. This is not the life I ever imagined yet I know it's possible to go on. We have someone to carry us through. Watching my dad go through so much pain and yet still having an understanding of "the plan", I have a greater appreciation for the atonement. It's the only way.

Meda & Papa in the mountains, the first weekend after mom's funeral.


Family- it's the greatest blessing. I am so grateful to my mom for showing me what a blessing family can be. Not only do I belong to two wonderful families, Travis and I also get to create one of our own. I can think of nothing better. Most of all I am grateful for my mom, she gave me enough love in 28 years 9 months and 22 days to last until I see her again (I can't wait).

2nd annual Papa's Polar Bear Club- Newport Beach, Feb. 17, 2009

Letting go of 60 balloons at the cemetery for Grammi's 60th Birthday